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Isn’t cremation an end in itself
Some people regard it as such, but most families feel that the cremated
remains of someone they love should be afforded a resting place. Most
families find that a memorial, regardless of its size, serves a basic
human need to remember and to be remembered.
What choices of memorialisation are available
A final resting place for cremated remains can be provided by various
means, the family can choose an urn that reflects the one who has
passed. The urn may be placed in a columbarium, which is a building or
structure where single niche space or family units may be selected.
Niches are recessed compartments often enclosed by glass protecting the
engraved urn or ornamental front of the urn. In many cemeteries there
are also specially designed areas for this purpose, which are called urn
gardens. .
What about scattering cremated remains
This may be legally done in most areas, but it is believed that in
consideration of the descendants of the departed that some form of
memorialisation should be provided. Furthermore, there are reasons for
not scattering, it can for many be a very traumatic experience. It can
be soul shaking to spill out all that is mortal of someone you have
known and loved. Some crematories provide scattering gardens within
their dedicated property, often with the option of personal memorials.
How does the cost of cremation compare with burial or entombment
The charge for cremation is somewhat less than traditional burial.
However, with many other items of service available in both the funeral
service before and in the mode of disposition after, it’s difficult to
make an accurate comparison. The family has the option to select as much
or as little as they choose and with cremation they have more options.
Is a funeral director necessary
Funeral directors are licensed and are the only ones permitted to do so.
The funeral director performs the same professional functions regarding
cremations as in any other service. In some areas funeral directors
operate crematories in conjunction with their funeral homes.
Is embalming necessary
No, but the factors of time, health and possible legal regulations and
religious beliefs might make embalming prior to cremation either
appropriate or necessary.
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